Friday, May 29, 2009

Happy -1 Year Wedding Anniversary!

The wedding will take place one year from today! (Here's a screen shot from my Google doc) I know it's a year away... but it feels like there really is no more time for dilly dallying. There's still a lot of things to be done! Here's an update on what we've been up to lately. By the way, I have some more screen caps. Yay visual aids!

Catering
We're supposed to have a meeting this Sunday with Karl of Two Chefs and a Table. Unfortunately, the appointment is currently not confirmed yet. We're also waiting for a sample quote from Diva... but still no emails :( In the meantime, I created a spreadsheet to help visualize catering total costs. Usually when caterers quote, the price is given per head. In addition to the food, there may be other costs: equipment rentals, labour, linens, etc. Here's a screen shot of the spreadsheet:


If anyone is interested in having a copy of the spreadsheet template, just let me know. So, as you can see, catering costs can really be a lot :(

Invitations
D and I have been browsing various invitations websites to figure out what kind of invitation we'd like. Here's a list of sites that have pretty invitations:
I've been making some invitation mockups using Photoshop and free brushes from Brusheezy and fonts from Fontica. Here are a couple of samples:


bridesmaid A should know where I borrowed this font styling from :)

What do you guys think? Any font suggestions?

Friday, May 15, 2009

Backlog #3 - Caterer Meetings

Prior to heading off to Bellevue for the Washington State Open Badminton Tournament, D and I met with a couple of caterers...

May 14 | Thursday | Sugar Mountain Catering
We trekked (except we didn't walk :P) all the way to New West on Thursday night to meet with David of Sugar Mountain Catering. He was very nice and very helpful. He prepared three dishes for us:

Papaya and brie quesadillas with tomato-cilantro salsa

Coconut prawns with pineapple-tamarind chutney
(which D said hurt his mouth -_-)

Pan-roasted halibut with wasabi mashed potatoes and tobiko-ginger butter

Everything tasted delicious! David has about 10 years experience in the catering business. He has also done weddings at the UBC Boathouse before, which is a plus. In terms of pricing, Sugar Mountain has the best price so far. The only minute draw back I can think of (and this is being nitpicky) is that the food's not extraordinary. They're good but they're not wow-these-are-amazingly-and-interestingly good. When it comes down to deciding which caterer we'll go for, we'll see if "good" will be good enough.

May 15 | Friday | Diva at The Metropolitan Hotel
D and I took Friday off and ventured downtown to have lunch with Chantel, the catering manager of Diva. We just ordered food from their lunch menu and, as expected, everything was good... interestingly good. I didn't take pictures of what we ordered but here's a list:
  • warm beet salad with chèvre | gathered greens & caramelized onions, beetroot reduction with horseradish crisp
  • avocado & dungeness crab salad | trio of melons dressed with lemon oil
  • grilled petit fillet mignon | pomme fondant, spring vegetables, béarnaise & red wine jus
  • diva’s smoked black cod | poached hen egg, leek & potato presse, grain mustard beurre blanc
  • dark chocolate & almond bar | espresso pot de crème, caramel ice cream
  • valrhona chocolate pudding | dulce de leche & vanilla rum pearls, banana ice cream
  • and another dessert that had churros... but I forgot the name
No, D and I weren't THAT greedy that we had 3 desserts. We actually shared it with Chantel. Anyway, the meeting went well. Chantel is very animated and great to talk to. The Metropolitan Hotel is also very experienced when it comes to catering. If we were to go for Diva, we know the food will be interestingly yummy and special. The draw back? Price of course. But their pricing isn't unreasonably high. It can actually be comparable to Sugar Mounatain's.

We're currently setting up a meeting with another caterer, Two Chefs and a Table. We're quite eager to see what they have to offer. Based on their introductory email, their pricing may fall between Sugar Mountain's and Diva's.

Here are some tips when meeting with caterers:
  • Try the food - Yes, I know this is an obvious one. But apparently, some caterers are stingy and they charge for tastings. If you really want that caterer, pay for it.
  • Clarify the pricing - Different caterers price differently. The price per head Sugar Mountain quoted us, for example, already included labor costs. Diva, on the other hand, was only for food. So ask questions like, does the price include the linens and cutlery? What about kitchen equipment rental? Does the price include clean up?
  • Take notes when tasting food - It can help you remember the tasting better.
  • Talk about dietary requirements - Luckily not a lot of people are allergic to chicken like me and my brother. However, surely others have more pressing dietary needs. Bring them up!
  • Talk about taste preference - My mom's taste buds tends to more on the salty side. Good caterers should be able to accomodate such specific individual requests.
  • Talk about what you want - We were told that some (bad) caterers won't stray from their menu. Basically, you can only choose from their menu. This is your day! Why should you be limited to what they can offer? Good caterers will be open to the idea of creating a whole new custom menu just to please you. Again, it is your day.
Ok, I am all caught up now! Hope you enjoyed reading the three postings I composed today. Thank you Memorial Day for making this possible :P Shh. Plethora of comments please :)

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Backlog #2 - Dress Shopping 2.0

On May 9 (Saturday), I went back to Bisou to try on more dresses with D's mom and sister. I didn't try on a lot of dresses this time around. However, the ones I tried on were all quite nice. It's getting tough to pick just one >_< D's mom recommended that I get a strapped dress to help elongate my torso. So most of the dresses I tried on had straps, including the Lazaro one-shoulder gown. I also tried on a Monique Lhullier dress named Clementine. However, with a price tag of $6750, I doubt I'll get it :(

My mom suggested getting my dress made through a designer in the Philippines named Edward Teng but I don't know if I like what I see. Any thoughts? Veto?

Anyway, I think once July rolls around, I will take my bridesmaids dress shopping. Bridesmaids, you know who you are. So clear your calendar in July :)

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Backlog #1 - Flower Meeting

My apologies! I haven't updated in a while. Wedding planning has taken a back seat to income tax filing and just general laziness. Now it's almost the end of May and I haven't done any postings! Aaah! To compensate for this, I will "go back through time" and do my postings. Even though today is May 25, this entry will be dated May 2 because I did start blogging but I didn't finish it. Here we go...

On May 2 (Saturday), D and I met with Kathleen (a.k.a. Flower Lady) of Proline Trading. To my surprise, she is more than just a flower lady. She does décor and linen rentals as well. The meeting, unfortunately, wasn't super productive because I've come to realize that I don't know exactly what flowers I want :(

To mitigate this problem, I did an online research on wedding flowers. The Knot has an awesome wedding flower guide. Unfortunately, you have to create an account in order to be able to view the flowers. And so, I'm copying and pasting below some of the info on flowers that I found pretty:

I tried creating a table but it won't show up right :(

Bouvardia
  • Season: year-round
  • Colors: white, peach, pink, red
  • Meaning: enthusiasm
  • Cost: $$
Calla Lily
  • Season: year-round, winter to late spring is the peak
  • Colors: ivory, yellow, orange, light pink, dark pink, red, dark burgundy
  • Scent: none
  • Meaning: ardor, magnificent beauty, feminine, modesty
  • Cost: $$$
Carnation
  • Season: year-round
  • Colors: white, yellow, apricot, pale pink, dark pink, red, burgundy, also bicolors and flecked
  • Scent:spicy, clovelike
  • Meaning: admiration, fascination, strong and pure love, unfading beauty
  • Cost:$
Freesia
  • Season:year-round
  • Colors: most colors are available, except for blue
  • Scent:very sweet, almost fruity
  • Meaning: innocence
  • Cost: $$
Gardenia
  • Season:year-round
  • Colors: ivory
  • Scent: very fragrant perfume
  • Meaning: transport of joy, ecstasy, I love you in secret, purity, peace
  • Cost: $$$
Hydrangea
  • Season: July-November
  • Colors: white, green, pink, burgundy, purple, blue
  • Scent: none
  • Meaning: devotion, remembrance, boastfulness
  • Cost: $$-$$$
Lisianthus
  • Season: year-round
  • Colors: white, cream, pale green, peach, pink, lavender, purple
  • Scent: none
  • Meaning: showiness
  • Cost: $$
Peony
  • Season: spring, imported, scentless variety available in fall and winter
  • Colors: white, cream, peach, pink, burgundy
  • Scent: sweet and mild to very aromatic
  • Meaning: beauty, welcome, bashfulness
  • Cost: $$-$$$
Ranunculus
  • Season: November-April
  • Colors: white, yellow, apricot, orange, pale pink, dark pink
  • Scent: mild, sweet
  • Meaning: you are rich in attractions, I am dazzled by your charms
  • Cost: $$-$$$
Stephanotis
  • Season: year-round
  • Colors: white
  • Scent: slight to none
  • Meaning: will you accompany me?
  • Cost: $$$
Sweet Pea
  • Season: November-June
  • Colors: white, cream, apricot, pale pink, dark pink, red, lavender, purple
  • Scent: intense, sweet fragrance
  • Meaning: everlasting pleasures
  • Cost: $$-$$$
Zinnia
  • Season: June-September
  • Colors: yellow, green, orange, pink, red
  • Scent: none
  • Meaning: thoughts of friends
  • Cost: $
So now, I look for pictures of bouquets and centerpieces when I have time. I'm hoping to create a site that will serve as my "inspiration board," which I can just send to a vendor and say, "I want this. How much will it cost me?" So as you can see, flowers is still a work in progress.

Speaking of flowers, I bought some hydrangeas over the weekend, Saturday to be exact. I think I didn't put them in water quickly enough. They started wilting Saturday night >_<